Books for Single Adults – Singles Issues

If you are a single adult, you will find these helpful. Here are some books that we recommend. A lot of these helped us personally through our midlife singleness. Some of these we wish we had been known about. Some we wish had existed at the time. We provide affiliate links for some of these. Purchasing through these links costs you nothing extra. It does, however, enable us to continue providing quality content.


These books are important because to thrive and be successfully single you have to reframe your view of singleness and dating.

Books We Recommend


The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating
By Andy Stanley / Zondervan

We have not read this book yet, but if it is anywhere near as good as the video series, it is a must read!



I Kissed Dating Goodbye, A New Attitude Toward Romance and Relationships
By Joshua Harris / Multnomah Books

Although I do not agree with some of his conclusions, a lot of his premises are worth thinking about. It is time to stop repeating old patterns of dating that so many times just don’t work. The way we dated as older teens and early twenty-somethings is especially inappropriate for us as thirty, forty, or fifty-somethings. Between this book and Boundaries in Dating I found a good and balanced approach to dating.



Boundaries in Dating
By Drs. Henry Cloud & John Townsend / Zondervan

I loved this book. It completely transformed my view of dating.



How to Get a Date Worth Keeping – Abridged Audiobook [Download]
By Henry Cloud / Zondervan

What can I say, I love Henry Clouds thoughts on dating.



Love Smart: Find the One You Want – Fix the One You Got
By Dr. Phil McGraw / Free Press

This is the book that Anita credits with changing her life as a single adult. The concepts presented here are very similar to what I read in Boundaries in Dating.



Single and Loving It: Living Life to the Fullest
By Kate McVeigh / Harrison House

This is another book that Anita credits with transforming her attitude towards being single.



Date or Soul Mate?
By Neil Clark Warren / Thomas Nelson

Yes, this is the eHarmony guy. Yes, it is a good book to read before you attempt dating.



Finding the Right One After Divorce: Avoiding the 13 Common Mistakes People Make in Remarriage – eBook
By Edward M. Tauber & Jim Smoke / Harvest House Publishers

Don’t become a statistic. Learn from other people’s mistakes.



The Dating Manifesto: A Drama-Free Plan for Pursuing Marriage with Purpose
By Lisa Anderson / David C. Cook

I have not read this book yet, but I have seen and heard the author on various videos and podcasts including Focus on the Family and was impressed enough to include her book here. I will report on it in greater detail when I get the chance o read it.


Check back often. We will be adding more books to this list as we become aware of them and have the opportunity to properly vet them.


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